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July 31, 2008
Profile of the week
Could this gay.com queen have any more more rules??
More about me:
This isn't short, but I'm going to make it honest, straight to the point, and simple. I'm a single parent of a 7 year old son, who always comes first no matter what. I was raised by a traditional family, and therefore was brought up to be what a man is, in the traditional sense, not the way society today views men should be, and I raise my son the same. I am sure many of you may have a problem with this, those who do please always remember two things. I'm not here for you, and if you don't have my heart, then your opinions of me, mean nothing to me, so please don't waste your time trying to feed me your stupidity... I'm a Christian, yes do believe in god, and no god doesn't hate me, nor will punish me. I'm also a Conservative, and no I'm not ashamed of who I am, or what I like. No I'm not racist, nor do I hate myself. For those who feel the need to be ignorant enough , to try to tell me, about me, when you don't even know me, maybe its you who has problems with yourself. I like having fun with my friends, and enjoy life as much as I can, since tomorrow is never promised, I thank god everyday me, and the people I care for, are given another day. No I'm not uptight, nor do I take myself too seriously, I like seeing people around me happy, and laughing, and I like being that way myself. I don't go to gay functions, I'm not into the gay world, gay pride, gay community, gay anything, doesn't mean anything to me, and I'm sorry but there is way too much in the gay world, that greatly conflicts with everything I stand for. I'm also not into separating myself, to be apart of a community, or world, I do not relate to, loving another man is not enough, men in ancient times, had male lovers, and there was no such thing as "gay" anything, just two men sharing love for each other. I'm just a regular guy, who likes doing guy things, who just happens to be capable of loving another man. As far as what I look for in a guy. Honesty, loyalty, trust, strength, courage, hard working, caring, loving, and humility. Most of all he's got to be able of loving, and protecting my son just as much as I do. I am very goal oriented and focused on achieving my goals. I work as hard as I can, and push myself to achieve my goals. I was always taught that the harder you work at something, and the more you put into it, the more you get out of it. I'm big into fitness as well. I have an amazing family that mean the world to me, and I have a great group of friends that I would do anything for. I'm very thankful for having these people in my life. I'm not the type who is all about looks, and not into mine (wouldn't do my sport if I were). If you're looking for sex, don't bother me. If you're looking for a "big strong man" to take care of you, and for you to be submissive to, you're not the guy for me, I don't find those qualities attractive in a man. If you're an atheist, and or way left out there, You're not the guy for me, I do not believe in "opposites attract", I am open minded, and love diversity, but I do not, and will not accept everything into my life/home, especially if it conflicts with my beliefs. If you're into useless vapid stuff, and love being around/in the gay world, behaving like a silly spoiled woman, or behave like a woman in general, you are free to do so, and I'm sure some guy may be into that, just not this one, nor do I want it around me, its not attractive to me. If you're some steroid freak, who does nothing but lift, and measure, don't bother me, I'm a martial artist, and a fighter, I don't respect that kind of cheating, or lack of self control, or disregard for your own health, which is dangerous, and disrespectful, not to mention selfish to, and for those who love you. If you're some guy who just wants to fight me, maybe because you get off on it, I don't know, nor do I care, don't bother me, because I don't get into street fighting, its dumb, and a huge disrespect to my sport, if you want to fight me, join a gym, train, and fight me in the octagon/cage, and be serious about it, fighting doesn't turn me on, if it does for you, that's great, but don't waste my time. Don't talk to me about marrying me, or wanting to take care of my son, the way a female would. If you want to get married to a man one day, that is great, I hope you find the man of your dreams, but I'm not him, marriage between men, to me it is unnatural, and I have to be honest, kind of funny. Please do not chat with me because you are bored, I'm not your entertainment, and do not talk to me for 5 or less minutes, and give me your number, ask for mine, or ask to meet up for coffee. 1, I don't want a bunch of guys calling my phone, or sending me text messages like a school girl, so if you ask for my number, remember you're not the first, second, or third. 2, If we didn't/don't have much in common, and didn't have much to say to each other, why should we waste our time, looking into each other's faces drinking coffee, or hearing each other breathe on the phone? You ask for nude photos, or ask to take any photos of me in a jock, or any "gay themed" situations, and the answer is No, ask again and its ignore. Ask for me to jerk off on cam, flex or wanna hear me masturbate for you, its ignore, I'm not a porn site, and I have a son. It's ok if you have a little fetish, some of you who do, need some serious help, either way keep it to yourself, I don't want to know it. Do not tell me you can help me, because you work for some magazine or have some kind of "connection", and would like to help me with my career, and or ask if I need a sponsor, I don't buy that stuff, and unfortunately many people today, don't do something, because they just honestly want to help someone, expecting nothing in return, I've almost experienced that, so don't be offended if I turn you down, because I don't trust you, and I have 6 older brothers, and friends, who are involved in my sport, and can help me just fine. Don't ask me to train you, I'm not a personal trainer, and I work with people who are absolutely serious about learning how to fight, better themselves in the sport, or need/want help to prepare for a fight, I'm not into playing anyone's fantasy as the trainer you get to mess around/flirt with, and remember you're not the first, second, or third to ask, nor are you more important than the ones before you. Don't ask me what position I like in bed I'm not into anal sex period, its not a turn on for me. Don't ask about the size of my manhood, its not your business, plus you should have some respect, and class to not make either two, be the first things you ask, don't ask me if I escort, I'm not a whore. Don't tell me, you want to give me a massage, I get nice ones, and I'm not into having strangers touching me, and getting off on it. I'm not the type of guy who is impressed by the school you went to, the clothes you wear, the car you drive, your home, or any other materialistic things, that don't matter when you leave the world, its just the heart, spirit, and how that person treats others, and carries himself that I look for. I'm a very humble, and private guy, and I don't like arrogance. Thanks for reading this if you did, I appreciate it, and god bless even if you don't believe.
What a windbag. As MrClean says, “If I have to scroll down to finish reading about U....U have clearly written too much about Urself...Nobody likes a Chatty Kathy.”
I’m listening to “Superbee” from Mostly Ape by Drums & Tuba.
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